Redirection: Don't think I don't know when they do it. If I'm upset about something, it's not uncommon for Mom or Dad to change the topic, dangle a toy, or try to bribe me with something so that I'll stop fussing about whatever is bothering me.
Well, it works sometimes and sometimes it doesn't.
The last two weeks have been a bit tricky. I was supposed to have a spinal tap last week, but I was too sick. Then this week, I was supposed to have a spinal tap on Thursday, my normal hospital day, but my nurse called Mom to say my immune system was really in the dog house and I needed an immunoglobulin transfusion STAT and had to come in a day early.
So, Wednesday we went in for transfusion- long day. Then today we went into the hospital for spinal tap, breathing treatment and my flu shot- long day.
I did great both days. Mom had me redirect my focus and had me dress up in my Halloween costumes and bring smiles to all the people in the hospital: other sick kids in the hallways, nurses, doctors, parents, construction workers... You name it. Me, my smile and my costume really helped me take my mind off of the hard work ahead. It was good for Mommy too.
A friend shared this with Mom today and it's a bit of good advice about redirection.
When you're feeling stressed, stop and take a deep breath. Next, think about all the reasons you have to be thankful. Thankfulness can help chase away stress every time. -Dave Willis
Wow! That hit the spot!
We are thankful we are almost done. Thankful I didn't have too many bad side effects from the chemo. I'm sad a little about losing my hair again this week, Mom and my doctor noticed that I'm shedding again, but I'm thankful that it has grown back before. We are thankful to have met some really strong people fighting this disease who have modeled grace under fire. We are thankful for friends and family who have prayed.
Here are pictures from my two day hospital week. Enjoy. And join me in focusing (refocusing) on the good!
P.S. It's all good. Even in suffering there is learning, and growing closer to God.
- My friend Avery's Psalm was open when Mom went to pray in the hospital chapel while I was in surgery. Thanks A for watching out for me. Miss you.
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